What is a speed shift?

[Eclipsor]

Yeah, its how you stand by your car

Hmm, not really sure what you meant by that, but, you said it yourself...

"A quick way to turn your transmission fluid into a pool of metal shavings?"

I'm assuming you were talking about clutchless shifting. Like I said, it's not about being good enough. Even if you match it perfectly every time, you'll still break your transmission LOOOOONG before you would have if you shifted using the clutch.