11-02-2020, 03:57 PM
(11-02-2020, 03:35 PM)Apoc Wrote: lulz @ tax breaks... just like marriage comes with tax breaks.
We never wanted kids. We even had a spreadsheet that scored all the reasons to have and not to have them. Then I got to about 35 and realized we'd already done most everything we wanted in DINK life. I remember asking myself, "what's the point of life?" around that time. After a lot of thought, the only real answer I could come up with was bringing life into the world and ensuring 1) it had a happy life, and 2) I used it as an opportunity to leave the world a better place than I found it.
You will be poorer and much more exhausted by having a kid. People like to talk about how that's all so worth it. Honestly, it's a wash in my mind... but I really enjoy getting to see the world for the first time all over again through his eyes. It's definitely the most self-less thing I've done in my lifetime.
Well said. I can respect people that have kids later in life. It befuddles me when I see people get married at 18 and have a kid at 20. Like... live your life.
Current:
2011 F150 Platinum | 1995 BMW 325i | 1983 BMW 320i | The MMoped | 2008 BMW 128i
Past:
1996 Toyota Tacoma: | 1992 Mazda Miata | 2002 BMW 325i |
2003 Toyota Tacoma | 1995 Miata M Edition | 1997 Subaru Outback |
1992 Mazda Miata | 1990 BMW 325i | 2007 Toyota 4Runner |
1995 Ford Windstar | 1987 BMW 325i | 1987 BMW 325 | 1990 BMW 325i Vert |
2018 VW GTI | 1990 Mazda Miata | 1989 BMW 325i Vert | 2015 Fiesta ST | 1983 BMW 320i parts car
2011 F150 Platinum | 1995 BMW 325i | 1983 BMW 320i | The MMoped | 2008 BMW 128i
Past:
1996 Toyota Tacoma: | 1992 Mazda Miata | 2002 BMW 325i |
2003 Toyota Tacoma | 1995 Miata M Edition | 1997 Subaru Outback |
1992 Mazda Miata | 1990 BMW 325i | 2007 Toyota 4Runner |
1995 Ford Windstar | 1987 BMW 325i | 1987 BMW 325 | 1990 BMW 325i Vert |
2018 VW GTI | 1990 Mazda Miata | 1989 BMW 325i Vert | 2015 Fiesta ST | 1983 BMW 320i parts car
